I'm an American lady who fell head over heals in love with an irishman. I have two lovely children, a daughter who is 2 and a son who is 12 weeks. I love being a mother, and have to admit that I define alot of who I am by being a mother. It's something I always desired, so now that it is here I find the other aspects of who I am slipping away to the sidelines. They're still there waiting for me. Once my children grow a bit older I'll resurface them.